We all have our own coping mechanisms to deal with issues or problems. I run, listen to music, run and listen to music, become mindlessly numb watching TV, go out with friends, or consult friends. I would always say 'time heals wounds' and 'move on.'
While I was out in Fiji all of my 'coping mechanisms' were not available. I couldn't run without a buddy, and all of my buddys couldn't run more than a quarter mile(i run about 3). Of course TV, movies, friends/going out weren't available. There was no 'running' from my problems. I couldn't turn to anyone because I felt no one understood. That's when I turned to the only possible solution, God. I began to put ALL my trust and fears into Him. I started to turn to Him first. For the first time in my life I began to rely on Him more and more each day.
How many times do we run to others for encouragement, strength, or resolution? How many people do we consult before we confide in God? One of the biggest issues I faced in Fiji was feeling left out. A step behind the group. An outsider. And however tough it may have been, I was forced to be dependent on God's strength. God's love. God's will. Romans 8:18-30
In our world today we tend to confide in others first rather than confiding in God. Sure we can sit, pray and read His word, but sometimes our quiet times are not quiet. Music deafens, sermons interrupt, and excuses destroy our precious time with God. Even Jesus himself needed silence. Luke 5: 15-16; 6:12-13
So there comes a time where we need to sit, be STILL and LISTEN to what He has to say. Proverbs 10: 19; 19:20
